kaberett: a watercolour of a pale gold/salmon honeysuckle blossom against a background of green leaves (honeysuckle)
Some of you have specifically mentioned being interested in seeing other people's responses to this week's [community profile] thefridayfive, and I'm sitting around nervously watching the mass spec run without the concentration to do anything more useful, so here you go.

Content note: this week's theme is grocery shopping and meal planning. My answers therefore involve mention of sensory issues with food, dietary restrictions, and disordered eating.

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Of course, what these questions don't touch on is HAVE I MENTIONED I HAVE AN ALLOTMENT. :D I make choices about what to grow (and where) for convenience; for example, I don't like buying cut herbs because (i) I feel vaguely guilty and (ii) they're never the right quantities, but I do like fresh herbs, so in pots on the verandah I've got mint, parsley, rosemary, sage, chives, and bay. I'm on the verge of buying seeds for two kinds of basil; an honourable mention to the ancestral wild garlic, that springeth green. I also had tomatoes on the patio (... I still haven't decided what to call it; "decking" seems awfully USois, somehow, and isn't quite in my active vocabulary) this summer, which was convenient and enjoyable enough that I'm likely to do it again. (I might also try cucumbers on the patio, depending on how the weather goes and whether I actually buy a greenhouse.)

At the allotment I'm prioritising things it's ridiculously expensive to buy (poppy seed! caraway seed! hopefully, if I get my act together, asparagus! bay leaves! soft fruit! hopefully some saffron, thanks to [personal profile] ewt!), things that come in entirely the wrong amounts always and are awkward to store (spinach!), things I always wince over the cost of and can rarely be persuaded to indulge myself on (fennel! purple sprouting broccoli! pak choi! shallots! interesting salad leaves! hopefully passionfruit!), things that are Brightly Coloured (this season I'm going to be experimenting with Painted Mountain sweetcorn, rainbow quinoa and purple chillis, among others), things it's otherwise tricksy to find (root parsley! :D), and things that are Just Better when they're really ludicrously fresh (hiiiii peas). I'd already been trying to eat seasonally; I'm looking forward to spending more time paying attention to plants, and trying to remind myself that I'm not going to be starting everything off hideously too late even if I am only getting back from Belfast at the end of February.

This is of course my first year with the allotment so I don't... entirely have a sense of how my shopping patterns will actually be affected, but I Am Excited To Find Out: I've already been enjoying working with the rhubarb and beetroot neighbours have desperately fobbed off on me, and with the things I've managed to get going already. So, you know, if compatible with your diet, should you visit me over the summer there's a very high chance that you'll be fed Things What I Grew (That Aren't The Sourdough), and should I visit you you might get brought A Tribute...
kaberett: a patch of sunlight on the carpet, shaped like a slightly wonky heart (light hearted)
Okay so in news that will surprise precisely no-one who isn't me, facesfriend & I are Probably Dating? In that I have somewhat to my bafflement concluded that we are closer to "dating" than "having dates" (IT IS A MEANINGFUL DISTINCTION OKAY) and I have kind of accidentally spent um three nights of the last five at his (only some of which was for the sake of a reliable internet connection) and last Thursday we went out for dinner which is definitely a Heteropatriarchy-Approved Mating Ritual soooooo.

I think the salient details are probably: he is a floppy-haired cis-boy programmer (who I don't freak out discussing code with); we were snogging on an escalator on a descent into the bowels of the tube, and once we were settled in a carriage he turned to me, smirking, and said "relationship escalator"; he is being very careful about boundaries and more-than-adequate communication & negotiation in incredibly refreshing ways; we are astonishingly compatible in terms of snark and things-to-watch and music-to-share and foods-to-eat; he is patiently acquiring my most common lapses into German; we laugh a lot & appear to feel remarkably safe with one another; and basically NRE everywhere & it's great & so is he. &! In spite of NRE everywhere! We spent yesterday evening largely curled up in different rooms getting on with our own work in the kind of way that is easier with sympathetic-human-is-present than not without getting hideously distracted! And mostly without getting distracted at all! I was gently astonished.

uh

i accidentally a person???
kaberett: Aang waterbending an octopus around himself (aang-octopus)
[I am telling my housemate about the meeting with my supervisor, which included supervisor asking me how I'd put together the plot in the mantle sulphides doc. "Erm," I said, "matplotlib? I wrote a Python script?"]

"... and then she gave me a look. It was kind of the look of why the fuck do you think this is easier than just using a pre-built package with a GUI-- oh, never mind, it's clearly working, whatever makes you happy."

"... fucking programmers," said my housemate.

"Only as a hobby," I sleepily replied.

And paused.

"... I think that contained more double entendres than I intended," I said.

"... you're going to have to explain to me," said my housemate. "I am also asleep."


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