ten good things
Oct. 10th, 2017 03:51 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
kaberett1. Yesterday afternoon, at 4.30pm, I sent off the latest draft of the current paper to my co-authors in advance of our meeting on Tuesday. I had been working at it steadily, in small chunks every day. At no point did I stay up past midnight working on it. It isn't perfect, partly because it can never be and partly because most of the outstanding stuff relies on getting input from a co-author who's been avoiding my e-mails since April; I'm very pleased with myself for maintaining sensible sleep cycles, and for sending it off "unfinished", because I don't think there is actually much to gain from me carefully polishing the presentation and formatting of an appendix that is not yet complete.
2. The casserole my mother bought me (I think when I started the PhD) is currently full of apples I brought home from my parents' on Saturday evening; I've done about half the bag, and everything smells correct. (It's James Grieve; they're mostly not available commercially, but they're what I grew up with, and I'm always faintly disappointed by apples that aren't them. So: I gathered up a quantity of them, and I'll gather up a quantity more when I go for dinner tomorrow, and I'll jar them, and I'll have enough to put on yoghurt and in crumble and in cake for the next year, I hope.)
3. Passing a pound-a-bowl market earlier today, it transpired that the cardboard crates of two-or-so kilos of blueberries really were one quid each. So I got one of those (I was not going to buy more, to get home on public transport), and I need to decide how many to freeze and whether o jam any and if I want to make clafoutis happen, and so on and so forth. This is a lovely problem to have.
4. Shortly afterwards, while poking around charity shops looking for yet more tablecloths (pace the Graun), on my way home from a hospital appointment that was uninspiring but unproblematic, I found a pasta maker for fifteen quid. Nobody I asked said it was a bad idea quickly enough, and that's how I ended up heading home on public transport with a lap full of pasta machine and two kilos of blueberries. "...", said a friend. "How does this stuff even happen to you so much" "I really don't know how you live like this" "But well done" -- which I will take. (This also, conveniently, provides me with My Next Cooking Goal. I think I probably don't care about the spaghetti attachment but I am eyeing up the ravioli one...)
5. I am sitting in the corner of my sofa, facing the French windows, looking out on the grass and the sunshine. (I love this house.)
6. I am now, after today's adventures in public transport, most of the way through CN Lester's book Trans Like Me. I keep crying over it in public. I have been earwormed with a song off Come Home, Not Again (and have just put it on: I'm used to breaking - but not this time/Of all the things you've taken, I'm not giving me from mine/I know I'm better lonely but alive).
7. On which tangentially-related topic, I recently got my act together to actually listen to Jesus & His Judgemental Father's latest, It Might Get Better, and I just absolutely adore the lyric my breakfast is an existential crisis. And I have a whole pile of books to curl up and wallow in, which I'm very much looking forward to -- Provenance, which I haven't yet had brain for, and the new Max Gladstone, and the new Nnedi Okorafor along with some of her back catalogue, and all the Kai Ashante Wilson I just acquired, and...
8. Board games! On Sunday I went to a board game social being run by my BSL-teacher-now-friend (having been a longstanding friend of A's)! I negotiated social anxiety in the run-up! I played two new-to-me games, with one person in the group each time that I didn't previously know, and it... worked? I didn't cry? I panicked a bit at the start of the second one but actually it was okay? I did the thing? I won one of them? I... am really, really proud of myself. I am so aware of how much progress this is: eighteen months ago, or thereabouts, I finally finally managed to persuade myself to sit down with a rulebook and an Adam in our living room and have a go at playing Thud!, which I'd wanted to basically since I saw it being play-tested at a Discworld convention. I think I ended up crying twice just reading the rulebook, while A was in the kitchen carefully giving me space to have a panic? I ended up crying a bunch more over the course of our couple of experimental collaborative games? ... I just played two new-to-me games with strangers, on no more prep than breezily informing people that I have hilarious boardgame-related trauma, would want to spend five minutes anxiously reading the rules in silence before starting, and that if I asked a question about game mechanic and it wasn't addressed to you by name then pretend I didn't say anything and let A answer. I... am so pleased with myself.
9. ... slipper socks. I sort of resent that I like them so much, and they are the precise opposite of what the podiatrists I was seeing wanted me to do for wearing around the house, but fundamentally I really hate slippers and would by defaul be barefoot but also my feet get really cold really quickly. So now I own two pairs of ridiculous slipper socks, and I wear other socks underneath and slouch around in them, and I spend much less time with my feet painfully cold?
10. ... and on Thursday I'm heading down to Brighton for The October Ritual, an aquarium trip, and Terre á Terre, which I've been curious about for a while.
There is lots that is good that is going on. I'm spending the weekend in Cornwall (well, driving to and from -- a lightning visit is To Be Made), and while there will be Wrangling To Be Done I am also, very much, looking forward to going (however briefly) home.
2. The casserole my mother bought me (I think when I started the PhD) is currently full of apples I brought home from my parents' on Saturday evening; I've done about half the bag, and everything smells correct. (It's James Grieve; they're mostly not available commercially, but they're what I grew up with, and I'm always faintly disappointed by apples that aren't them. So: I gathered up a quantity of them, and I'll gather up a quantity more when I go for dinner tomorrow, and I'll jar them, and I'll have enough to put on yoghurt and in crumble and in cake for the next year, I hope.)
3. Passing a pound-a-bowl market earlier today, it transpired that the cardboard crates of two-or-so kilos of blueberries really were one quid each. So I got one of those (I was not going to buy more, to get home on public transport), and I need to decide how many to freeze and whether o jam any and if I want to make clafoutis happen, and so on and so forth. This is a lovely problem to have.
4. Shortly afterwards, while poking around charity shops looking for yet more tablecloths (pace the Graun), on my way home from a hospital appointment that was uninspiring but unproblematic, I found a pasta maker for fifteen quid. Nobody I asked said it was a bad idea quickly enough, and that's how I ended up heading home on public transport with a lap full of pasta machine and two kilos of blueberries. "...", said a friend. "How does this stuff even happen to you so much" "I really don't know how you live like this" "But well done" -- which I will take. (This also, conveniently, provides me with My Next Cooking Goal. I think I probably don't care about the spaghetti attachment but I am eyeing up the ravioli one...)
5. I am sitting in the corner of my sofa, facing the French windows, looking out on the grass and the sunshine. (I love this house.)
6. I am now, after today's adventures in public transport, most of the way through CN Lester's book Trans Like Me. I keep crying over it in public. I have been earwormed with a song off Come Home, Not Again (and have just put it on: I'm used to breaking - but not this time/Of all the things you've taken, I'm not giving me from mine/I know I'm better lonely but alive).
7. On which tangentially-related topic, I recently got my act together to actually listen to Jesus & His Judgemental Father's latest, It Might Get Better, and I just absolutely adore the lyric my breakfast is an existential crisis. And I have a whole pile of books to curl up and wallow in, which I'm very much looking forward to -- Provenance, which I haven't yet had brain for, and the new Max Gladstone, and the new Nnedi Okorafor along with some of her back catalogue, and all the Kai Ashante Wilson I just acquired, and...
8. Board games! On Sunday I went to a board game social being run by my BSL-teacher-now-friend (having been a longstanding friend of A's)! I negotiated social anxiety in the run-up! I played two new-to-me games, with one person in the group each time that I didn't previously know, and it... worked? I didn't cry? I panicked a bit at the start of the second one but actually it was okay? I did the thing? I won one of them? I... am really, really proud of myself. I am so aware of how much progress this is: eighteen months ago, or thereabouts, I finally finally managed to persuade myself to sit down with a rulebook and an Adam in our living room and have a go at playing Thud!, which I'd wanted to basically since I saw it being play-tested at a Discworld convention. I think I ended up crying twice just reading the rulebook, while A was in the kitchen carefully giving me space to have a panic? I ended up crying a bunch more over the course of our couple of experimental collaborative games? ... I just played two new-to-me games with strangers, on no more prep than breezily informing people that I have hilarious boardgame-related trauma, would want to spend five minutes anxiously reading the rules in silence before starting, and that if I asked a question about game mechanic and it wasn't addressed to you by name then pretend I didn't say anything and let A answer. I... am so pleased with myself.
9. ... slipper socks. I sort of resent that I like them so much, and they are the precise opposite of what the podiatrists I was seeing wanted me to do for wearing around the house, but fundamentally I really hate slippers and would by defaul be barefoot but also my feet get really cold really quickly. So now I own two pairs of ridiculous slipper socks, and I wear other socks underneath and slouch around in them, and I spend much less time with my feet painfully cold?
10. ... and on Thursday I'm heading down to Brighton for The October Ritual, an aquarium trip, and Terre á Terre, which I've been curious about for a while.
There is lots that is good that is going on. I'm spending the weekend in Cornwall (well, driving to and from -- a lightning visit is To Be Made), and while there will be Wrangling To Be Done I am also, very much, looking forward to going (however briefly) home.
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Date: 2017-10-10 04:49 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2017-10-10 05:14 pm (UTC)Oooooooooh, that looks AMAZING.
This vegetarian would love to go!
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Date: 2017-10-10 05:15 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2017-10-10 05:42 pm (UTC)I was shown a copy of their cookbook then found it in a charity shop, and bought it on the principle that I'm not sure I can actually make everything on it and would definitely need the recipes! I'm pretty excited :-)
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Date: 2017-10-10 05:44 pm (UTC)Ha, not on this occasion! I'm going to freeze a lot of them, though, and therefore maybe in future :-)
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Date: 2017-10-10 06:24 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2017-10-10 06:24 pm (UTC)Ed: this has been a slipper sock appreciation post
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Date: 2017-10-10 06:27 pm (UTC)(the real kicker is that i don't notice or really care about my feet being cold per se, i just notice that i have a lot less energy and am generally being cranky about things and then go OH. THAT IS WHY. DAMMIT)
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Date: 2017-10-10 06:30 pm (UTC)If you feel ok talking a little more about the boardgame self-accommodation that you use to make it possible to enjoy board game sessions with others, I'd appreciate that, because I would like to be able to participate in that stuff with my friends and I get tetchy in ways that make me very sad to reflect on.
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Date: 2017-10-10 06:51 pm (UTC)My issue with slippers is that I hate their feel across the top of my high-arched foot, so I had a think about ways to avoid that, and bought a cheap pair of the 'orthopaedic' boot style ones in a size too large. That makes them loose enough that I don't have to deal with them being irritating, while being more than warm enough, even on the coldest day. (Of course, loose fit plus dyspraxic bendy isn't an ideal combination for walking, but I'm mostly wearing them with the chair).
Still mostly barefoot though.
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Date: 2017-10-10 07:03 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2017-10-10 07:04 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2017-10-10 07:04 pm (UTC)but the thing they ACTUALLY wanted me to do, right, is that EDS means I've got high arches AND SIMULTANEOUSLY that I am flat-footed, so they were after me wearing a correctly-sized slipper that (a) could fasten relatively tightly (e.g. via velcro) to give me lateral support, and (b) could have orthotics put in it.
In conclusion: no.
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Date: 2017-10-10 07:05 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2017-10-10 07:08 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2017-10-10 07:09 pm (UTC)DO YOU KNIT? I RECOMMEND KNITTING TUBE SOCKS they're great slipper-sock like things and also quite soothing.
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Date: 2017-10-10 07:12 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2017-10-10 07:15 pm (UTC)I DO KNIT and indeed can knit more these days now that I'm hand physio + ring-splinting BUT
(a) I owe![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
such_heights+![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
happydork a wedding present
(b) I owe ![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
jjhunter a shawl (I'm actually most of the way through both of these, just... UFOs.)
(c) I don't think my hands would stand up, alas, to a fine enough yarn that I'm happy actually walking/standing in them, as opposed to merely curling up sat down in them.
It is Quite Frustrate!
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Date: 2017-10-10 07:17 pm (UTC)(I now wear them without the orthotics, because I'm pretty sure the orthotics gave me plantar fasciitis. They're quite excellently grippy in the shower, and squashy enough to not give me massive impact problems the rest of the time.)
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Date: 2017-10-10 07:22 pm (UTC)The other thing I've worn as occasional solution are athletic type sandals (which is bizarre as sandals used to irritate me in exactly the same way as trainers).
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Date: 2017-10-10 07:26 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2017-10-10 07:28 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2017-10-10 07:29 pm (UTC)Uuuugh I should see about getting new orthodics I suspect the lack of them is contributing to my back pain.
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Date: 2017-10-10 07:33 pm (UTC)Like. Barefoot always and forever. Failing that: depending on circumstances, comfy sandals, or a pair of this one specific brand and style of socks†, or such a pair of socks plus a pair of this one specific brand and style of sneakers. Slippers with velcro and orthotics sound like sensory hell.
† unless I'm going to be hanging out thus with someone who gave me some other, visually distinctive, style of socks, in which case I will seriously consider putting up with the sensory shit in order to make them happy bc I'm wearing their gift
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Date: 2017-10-10 08:43 pm (UTC)