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[personal profile] kaberett
Please filter me out of any posts about intentional weight loss.

I recognise that I'm open about a lot of the things I find difficult, and as such it's fairly easy to overlook the ones I talk about less, so here's your reminder.

If this isn't something you're willing to do, please let me know and I'll take appropriate steps to look after myself.

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Date: 2018-11-28 06:36 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] recessional
This is a hypothetical rather than practical clarification but as we know bob I like to calibrate: where would things such as "I am a climber and would like to drop straight-up weight in order to make climbing easier" or "I do a weight-category sport and am/need to/etc drop weight for this" fall?

(Also if at any point I have a post/discussion/whatever that I've missed why it would apply, if you feel comfortable it would be helpful to tag me about that one specifically - just a "this is the kind of post I need not to see, even with cut tag!" is great, no justification or apology required, and is an actively helpful rather than intrusive communication if it is something that can be done.)

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Date: 2018-11-28 08:30 pm (UTC)
niqaeli: cat with arizona flag in the background (Default)
From: [personal profile] niqaeli
*gestures vaguely at M's last paragraph* That, basically? That is also true for me. (Sorry, I'm sick, I'm not doing great at generating original thought.)

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Date: 2018-11-29 06:16 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] meneltarma
Wanting to respect your boundaries, I'd like a clarification: it's dysphoria for me, and I do try to warn for it: unwanted weight loss. Are you okay if there's a warning and a cut on the post or do you need to be filtered away as per discussion below about wanting to click on TWs? (It's a health issue I've been having because of my medical diet, I know I've written about it at least once, I update so infrequently I cannot say with 100% certainty I've cut tagged every time but I know enough people with EDs whenever I talk about weight I try to cut and TW and Not Use Numbers.)

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Date: 2018-11-30 02:50 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] meneltarma
I know exactly the conversation and the people to whom the conversation must be oriented and, Yes, That. TY for clarifying, I'm sorry you are being exposed to things that are negative for you & hope this post means you will see it much less (preferably zero of it).

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Date: 2018-12-03 11:16 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] mdlbear
Oh. Good to have that clarified. I don't think you'll be in any danger from me then -- there's family history that makes me pretty sensitive around that kind of thing, as well as other forms of self-harm.

I do occasionally link to things about harm prevention; hopefully that's not problematic for you.

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Date: 2018-11-28 09:34 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] ninetydegrees
My apologies if I've made posts about this without trigger warnings. I'm pretty sure I have actually so my sincere apologies period. I won't forget about it again.

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Date: 2018-11-28 10:11 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] wildeabandon
Just for clarification, is behind a cut tag with a content note sufficient, or do you need to be completely unable to see it?

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Date: 2018-11-28 11:45 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] wildeabandon
Okay. In that case you might want to unfollow me. It's not something I anticipate discussing in any depth because it's really not very interesting, but I don't think I can guarantee no references on public posts.

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Date: 2018-11-29 02:46 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] lunabee34
I think this is probably true of me too. I don't often post about it, and I always cut tag for it,but I can't guarantee I won't talk about it in a public post.

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Date: 2018-11-29 07:34 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] sporky_rat
I do occasionally mention unintentional, more along the lines of 'wtf meds, why are you weird, right, time to adjust you again and find more trou at the thrift store, ugh', but that's usually pretty clearly stated on a cut.

Things that involve anything like that have a specific tag and I think tag blocking is a thing, but I am not quite sure right now?
(Ear infection, massive antibiotics, wee.)

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Date: 2018-11-29 09:39 pm (UTC)
sporky_rat: Orange 3WfDW dreamsheep (Default)
From: [personal profile] sporky_rat
Yeah, it's all pretty much unintentional.

When I get back to lifting weights, then I'll be discussing that, but that's a totally different type of weight to be losing and gaining. ;)

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Date: 2018-12-01 08:36 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] khronos_keeper
Would you mind clarifying for me? Sometimes I'll mention weight loss as a side effect of a medical condition, but not in depth, just a kind of "its doing the thing again". Would this bother you?

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