oh yes that one is toxic for me too, because ALSO no, sorry, "was (occasionally, in isolated incidents) mean to someone I care about" is not the same as abuse/assault/whatever. There really are degrees here and pretending everything's fine because nobody's perfect is so unhelpful.
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regna
Re: Off topic
Date: 2017-11-08 02:44 pm (UTC)