who only by moving can balance

Yes... it's possible that there are virtuous interactions between the requirement for someone not-being-freaked-out-by trans people and not-being-freaked-out-by poly people, in the sense that requiring both lessens the risk that one falls for someone who was actually just "ooh, extra connection, extra sex!" and hadn't deeply absorbed the implications of being outside the mainstream.

< Bitter, moi? >