who only by moving can balance

I will note that if one of my partners slept with someone else without talking to me about it beforehand, I also would rather not be awakened a few days later with the news. After a cup of tea would be much better. (None of them has done this, but the partner most likely to sleep with someone else without talking to me about it beforehand is also least likely to wake up before I do, let alone be up for conversation before I've had tea.)