seriously it's hilarious! And also, laughing at the ridiculousness of the conflict (with affection) is pretty much THE best way I can think of to defuse the nasty feedback loops of shame and felt-hypocrisy and loss of ability to self-regulate as a result that I'm otherwise annoyingly prone to.
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Date: 2019-04-07 03:57 am (UTC)seriously it's hilarious! And also, laughing at the ridiculousness of the conflict (with affection) is pretty much THE best way I can think of to defuse the nasty feedback loops of shame and felt-hypocrisy and loss of ability to self-regulate as a result that I'm otherwise annoyingly prone to.