I'm feeling this pretty hardcore at the moment, too.
On one hand, I'm the type of person who's kind of a loner by nature, and I like to have my own little bubble that people can't come inside.
But on the other hand, I also get spells of feeling suddenly very alone and isolated. Usually after having spent a few days without having personal interaction with anyone. I still haven't figured out a perfect solution to this.
Usually I can rouse my twin on chat, and we can talk over video chat. A lot of the times, it's really just me wanting to feel secure and what I really want is An Adult, and more often than not my Mom. Yesterday I got to video chat with my mom, and I instantly felt 1000% more comforted than I had within the past week or so.
I also do self comforting things like water my plants, and talk to them. Everything likes to hear how beautiful they are, and it makes me feel better to compliment my miniature daffodils on how much progress they've made.
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Date: 2014-03-08 10:15 pm (UTC)On one hand, I'm the type of person who's kind of a loner by nature, and I like to have my own little bubble that people can't come inside.
But on the other hand, I also get spells of feeling suddenly very alone and isolated. Usually after having spent a few days without having personal interaction with anyone. I still haven't figured out a perfect solution to this.
Usually I can rouse my twin on chat, and we can talk over video chat. A lot of the times, it's really just me wanting to feel secure and what I really want is An Adult, and more often than not my Mom. Yesterday I got to video chat with my mom, and I instantly felt 1000% more comforted than I had within the past week or so.
I also do self comforting things like water my plants, and talk to them. Everything likes to hear how beautiful they are, and it makes me feel better to compliment my miniature daffodils on how much progress they've made.