It's a love meme!

[kaberett]

Because November is hard for lots of us, and in particular is something I find hard (my not-quite-month of mourning begins tomorrow, officially); because it's spring in the southern hemisphere and the days just keep getting shorter in the northern; because I talked to my counsellor yesterday about all of the shapes and forms that value takes.

This post will close to new nominations at the end of the month (because November), though I'll keep unscreening comments after that point if any new ones do come in.

Love meme

♥ Nominate yourself or someone else, anonymously or logged-in, by putting your/their username in the subject line of a comment to this entry. If you do not know for certain the person's preferred pronouns and they do not list them on their DW profile, please use gender neutral pronouns as a default. Other people can then reply to that comment with goopy declarations of love, reasons that person is awesome, sparkly expressions of admiration, etc! All comments are screened, and I'll unscreen them as they arrive. (So, if your comment doesn't appear right away, please be patient; I'll leave my online status at the bottom of this post to keep people updated on whether I'm unscreening or not.)

♥ If you don't want to be nominated, or don't want comments referring to certain things [body/appearance, wrong pronouns, etc] to appear on your thread, please let me know; I won't unscreen any such comment or nomination. If I make a mistake in unscreening something, if you want a comment to your thread unscreened or deleted, if you have any concerns you need to raise -- please just tell me, and I'll attend to it as soon as I can. If there are any inappropriate comments made to a thread, I will check with the person being referred to before unscreening.

♥ Share the love: please do send people over here (and to your own thread!) Words-and-deeds it up if you like, but that's not obligatory!

♥ These guidelines are modeled on dingsi's love meme guidelines, with modifications by jjhunter and wording lifted from surpassingly.

♥ That's it -- happy posting!

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Index
aella_irene
alee_grrl
alexseanchai
angelofthenorth/MsMiriamM
azurelunatic

balsamandash
beckyc
boxofdelights

calissa
cesy

danohu/oedipamaas49
dingsi
dreamsofwinter

elisem
el_staplador
emef/iteration
ewt
ewx
exor674

florallel
forthwritten
fyreharper

glass_icarus
goodbyebird

haggis
hairyears
holli

inkstone
inoru_no_hoshi
itsamellama

jenett
jjhunter

kaberett
k_a_webb
kerrypolka
khronos_keeper
kiezh

laceblade
likeadeuce
littlebutfierce
liv
lizcommotion

marina/sabrina_il
mirabehn (Elly, kindjourneys)
mirrorshard
mme_hardy
moetushi
Muccamukk

nenya_kanadka

oursin

palfrey
palmer1984
phi/Saira
pipisafoat
plures
pretty_panther

quartzpebble

raanve
randomling
raven
raze
recessional
redbird
rhivolution
riseswiththefall
rydra_wong
rysmiel

sabinetzin/sabinelagrande
sasha_feather
Seascribe
sebastienne
serpentine
ses/hazyjayne
shanaqui
shehasathree
silveradept
silverhare
snowafterfire
staranise
strangecharm
stultiloquentia
such_heights
surpassingly

thatyourefuse
thebonesofferalletters
thefairymelusine
toft

vass

were_duck
wildeabandon
wisdomeagle
woggy

ysobel

zarhooie

Comments

sasha_feather

[sasha_feather]

Putting my name in! She/her

Re: sasha_feather

[rhivolution]

You are a sweet and lovely friend and I really appreciate your kindness. Your thoughts and take on things are always very interesting to me, and I am sort of running out of words and getting sheepish, but know you are great.

Re: sasha_feather

[owlectomy]

You have made me think harder and revise my views on things, especially around disability, which I appreciate!

I have really enjoyed hanging out with you at WisCon. I like your sense of humor and your passion and your style and your thoughtfulness and all the work you have done to make WisCon a more accessible convention!

Re: sasha_feather

[luinied]

I've learned a bunch of things about disability activism from you, and I think this has made me better able to be decent to the people around me.

Also, there have been times recently when I've been talking to someone about dysfunctional dynamics behind the scenes in spaces that, um, should not have such dynamics, and I've remembered what you've said about how progress is being made addressing these problems in contexts you're aware of. And just knowing that is really encouraging.

Re: sasha_feather

[toft]

I really appreciate your dry sense of humour, your strong commitment to injustice and the way you share information and knowledge, your fabulous fashion sense and enjoyment thereof, and how supportive and kind you are <3

Re: sasha_feather

[likeadeuce]

Your posts and tweets are smart an insightful, and I appreciate your perspective in all things.

Re: sasha_feather

[likeadeuce]

Your posts and tweets are smart an insightful, and I appreciate your perspective in all things.

Re: sasha_feather

[laceblade]

I appreciate your kindness - towards both me and others - it seems whenever anyone is experiencing a bad time, you're able to both extend your own kindness & also remind ourselves that it's okay (& necessary) to be kind to ourselves, too. This even when you're in a lot of pain yourself! It's something I really admire about you, <3

Re: sasha_feather

[sasha_feather]

oh gosh ;_; <3333

Re: sasha_feather

[davidgillon]

You seem to talk sense about - well, not found anything you don't talk sense about yet :)

Re: sasha_feather

[littlebutfierce]

I appreciate how much you care about disability issues & making our communities better, as well as the love & kindness you give to your dogs, past & present!

Re: sasha_feather

[amadi]

You're just one of my favorite people. I can't rightly quantify it, I am just really glad to know you, and get to read your thoughts and experiences.

Re: sasha_feather

[starlady]

I appreciate your fashion, your sense of humor, and your pragmatic approach to accessibility and your willingness to talk about it. I've also been very grateful for your posts thinking through various issues and such related to harassment and other things this year; they've very much helped me grapple with such things, too. You are great. <3

Re: sasha_feather

[kaberett]

I am grateful to you for your community-building, and all the effort you go to to disseminate information. Also I like your fanworks! Thank you :-)