A love meme, in words & deeds

[kaberett]

The thing that's stuck with me most, from every Dreamwidth love meme I've ever participated in, is being told you make things seem more possible.

You make things seem more possible.

Please nominate yourselves; please nominate each other; comments are screened, and I'll unscreen and make up an index as we go.

Hello. I love you.

Index

403

A
aella_irene
alexseanchai
angelofthenorth
azurelunatic

B
balsamandash
bethany_lauren

C
cadenzamuse/Denzi
cereta/Lucy
cesy
chiasmata

D
danohu

E
el_staplador/Kathleen
ewt

F
flippac
forests_of_fire

G
glass_icarus

H
hairyears
harpers_child
hollymath

I
ilyena_sylph
inkstone
ironed_orchid

J
jenett
jjhunter

K
kaberett

L
lilysea

M
mathemagicalschema
minim_calibre
mme_hardy/MadameHardy

N
nanila
newredshoes

P
pauamma
pipisafoat

Q
quartzpebble

R
rachelmanija
randomling
recessional
redbird
rosefox
rynia

S
serpentine
ses
sgsabbage
shanaqui
shehasathree
sholio
silveradept
staranise
such_heights
surpassingly
syderia

T
terajk/Tera
thebonesofferalletters
tielan
twistedchick

V
vass
vlion

W
watersword

Y
yhlee
yohjideranged
yoyoangel

Z
zhelana


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Comments

kaberett, they/them/their

[kaberett]

Please.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[alexseanchai]

I love you for thinking of this.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[azurelunatic]

You make the spaces you are in better, with great intention and also by being yourself. You take the time to examine the world around you for things that could be improved, and then you go and do them, often.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[syntaxofthings]

Thank you for doing this.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[mathemagicalschema]

You are unfailingly kind. Whenever I get to talk to you or read something you've written, the world feels brighter. Rocks and bees make me smile, because they make me think of you <3

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[flippac]

Mostly I'm short on words today. I love you, and I know this isn't news.

But for me, you haven't just made things seem or feel more possible. You've helped me through hell, and I hope I'm still helping you some too.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[ewt]

You know, I hadn't thought about it in exactly those words, but you really do make things seem more possible: by thinking them through, by examining the outcomes, by writing about it all. I probably can't top that.

Thank you.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[cereta]

I always smile when I see a comment or post is from you.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[watersword]

You are kind and generous and thoughtful and I'm grateful you exist.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[syderia]

I love that you keep trying.
I love your honesty in describing your struggles.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[redbird]

I love your courage, your patience in explaining things, and your kindness in thinking of things like this meme.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[ewt]

Also your tenacity in dealing with Stuff You Have Been Dealt has encouraged me to take some of my own Stuff more seriously and to treat myself with more compassion. Thank you for that, too.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[jenett]

I love how you look at things, figure out what makes them fit or not fit.

(People tell me I write stuff that helps them make sense of the world. You're one of the people I read whose posts do that for me, reliably, and often about stuff I know less about, so it's even better.)

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[ilyena_sylph]

You make so many things better. I love you a lot.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[ironed_orchid]

I like the honesty with which you write about your experiences. Even your To Do Lists are interesting to read.

And the space you make for others, in creating a post like this.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[pauamma]

I'm not very good at putting things into words right now, but I want to say thanks for doing this anyway. I think I needed it.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[randomling]

You are flat-out awesome. I am endlessly admiring of your determination to work your way through even the most difficult things, your resilience and your compassion. How willing you are to spend spoons on other people when everything is already difficult for you. (See: medical advocacy! And so many other things.)

I love you, I really do.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[staranise]

You are such a deeply thoughtful and ethical person. You make the world better.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[davidgillon]

I love you for your self-analysis, which has prompted me to so many valuable insights into my own condition, for your good sense and advocacy (the wheelchair guide!), for your tenacious survival in the face of life's fuckwittery, and for your enthusiasms - birbs! rocks! art! poetry!

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[boxofdelights]

I value everything you do to sustain community here on Dreamwidth. It is important and useful.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[el_staplador]

You have an honesty and openness that is both compassionate and bracing. You're kind, and hospitable, and fun to be around.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[shanaqui]

Thank you for starting this. ♥ Just the right time. I love you for your self-reflection and honesty, your deliberation, your supportiveness.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[rootsofthestories]

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

You are wonderful and I love hearing what you have to say and I am just happy to know you. Thank you for your continued existence.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[vass]

I love how you think and act, and how you keep writing out the steps so people can see. The daring and patience you show in showing up and being visible, again and again, letting other people know what is possible and who else is like them or unlike them. The way you hold space. The way you take care, both in the sense of tending and in the sense of caution. And how you write and science and code. I feel very lucky to know you.

Re: kaberett, they/them/their

[cosmolinguist]

You add so much to my life. I'm very glad you lit a candle for my brother last week.