Well, yeah. But I mean I know that housing in London is as bad as housing here? And even worse in terms of making for accessibility stuff? Sooooo. I feel like “the wheelchair can move around in this house, and this house EXISTS, and is within price-range/etc” makes for Very Heavy on the scales. Like, very heavy. And I want to say it aloud and pretty firmly due to my knowledge of YOUR brain’s tendency to . . . mis-weight things to do with your life quality simply because it is YOUR life-quality (only to have that potentially build up over time and go snap because it turns out humans have limits <3) and you shouldn’t be (according to your jerkbrain) weighting it much at all.
And how sneaky jerkbrains can be about that especially when you’ve recently kicked them into accepting SOME kind of “no I need to do thing for my life quality”. So.
Which makes bird-in-the-hand-worth-two-in-the-bush applicable. And closer to work/etc is also a HUGE gain, and furniture can go into storage/see if someone else can store it for you instead of Gotten Rid Of Completely if there is sentimental attachment to that extent? So yeah.
(like obvs I am not the boss of you and you are the one with all the details. I just wanted to pull out some Things and Aspects that I feel deserve hard contemplation. <3)
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Well, yeah. But I mean I know that housing in London is as bad as housing here? And even worse in terms of making for accessibility stuff? Sooooo. I feel like “the wheelchair can move around in this house, and this house EXISTS, and is within price-range/etc” makes for Very Heavy on the scales. Like, very heavy. And I want to say it aloud and pretty firmly due to my knowledge of YOUR brain’s tendency to . . . mis-weight things to do with your life quality simply because it is YOUR life-quality (only to have that potentially build up over time and go snap because it turns out humans have limits <3) and you shouldn’t be (according to your jerkbrain) weighting it much at all.
And how sneaky jerkbrains can be about that especially when you’ve recently kicked them into accepting SOME kind of “no I need to do thing for my life quality”. So.
Which makes bird-in-the-hand-worth-two-in-the-bush applicable. And closer to work/etc is also a HUGE gain, and furniture can go into storage/see if someone else can store it for you instead of Gotten Rid Of Completely if there is sentimental attachment to that extent? So yeah.
(like obvs I am not the boss of you and you are the one with all the details. I just wanted to pull out some Things and Aspects that I feel deserve hard contemplation. <3)