pffffffffff nonsense, Grausi was dead by the time I was born and she still gets a mention :-p and as discussed you are ~~THE BEDROCK OF MY LYFE~~ (or at least someone I pretty much experience as a constant and someone who still has a huge influence on me EVEN THOUGH I'M CRAP AT E-MAIL TOO), SO. (Also I talk about you rather more in #dreamwidth IRC than I do in blog posts, so!) IN YOU GO.