I met ludy in a pub. They were knitting, and we bonded over yucky insides and the fact that we were both there for the same reason, i.e. they know a lot of fantastic people and so, mysteriously, do I.

They talk a lot of Really Good Sense about family, and interacting with family; they make lovely art (I am currently seriously enjoying their photo-a-day series); and basically, hurrah for awesome queers who make me feel more okay about Being Me and Just Getting On With It and respecting my limits. ♥